Come With Us Podcast

Electrifying Desires: A Sparkling Dive into Electro and Sensation Play with Pink Kink's Dara

January 17, 2024 Beth Liebling Episode 161
Come With Us Podcast
Electrifying Desires: A Sparkling Dive into Electro and Sensation Play with Pink Kink's Dara
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Ever felt the allure of the unknown, the mysterious spark that tingles more than just your curiosity? Dara from the effervescent Pink Kink podcast returns to our audio haven to explore the electrifying realm of electro play and sensation play. Strap in for an episode that's charged with the vibrant energy of a violet wand and the insightful tips on how to safely incorporate these buzzing practices into your erotic explorations. Dara's expertise is not only invigorating but also educational, as she teases the details of the Pink Kink Institute's upcoming beginner class. It's high-voltage pleasure with a side of giggles, transforming taboo into tantalizing temptation.

Have you ever wondered how the sting of a horse curry comb could possibly enhance your intimate encounters? We unravel the complexities of electricity play, from the necessity of a high pain threshold to the thrilling unpredictability that comes with the territory. Hear about the logistical puzzles of transporting kinky gear, the importance of safety and consent in BDSM, and why a good cleanup is as essential as the play itself. As we share candid tales from personal experiences to the less glamorous aspects of adult entertainment, the conversation sparkles with humor and the kind of blunt honesty that makes for an unforgettable listening experience.

Wrapping things up, we cast a light on the nuances of ElectroPlay, emphasizing the importance of trying out those intriguing toys before making an investment. With stories that will have you laughing and nodding in agreement, we unveil the practical challenges, like navigating gear transportation and the all-important post-play cleanup. Dara's charm guides us through an episode brimming with anecdotes and advice that promise to leave you both more knowledgeable and entertained. Connect with us and feel the buzz of our latest podcast adventure – it's a jolt of joy you won't want to miss.

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Speaker 1:

Are you saying you faked with me?

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I just can't say it and it says I'm so cool, I'm not wrong.

Speaker 3:

Now you're single.

Speaker 2:

What do you know about sexual relations?

Speaker 1:

Is it true that if you don't use it, you use it?

Speaker 2:

I'm a little worried about being a slut. You're listening to the Come With Us podcast, talking the good, the kinky and the ugly. Here are your hosts, beth and Erin.

Speaker 3:

Hey, there are all you holes and polls, and welcome to another episode of Come With Us podcast. I am Erin in for Beth. Again, I'm going to run the show, if you listen. Last week we had Dara from the Pink Kink podcast. Hey look, I said it right this time on and, of course, because I was helming the ship, we got carried away, we went off on tangents and she agreed to come back this week so we could talk a little bit more about electro play and the new class that she and Rara from Pink Kink have launched. So yeah, dara, I appreciate you being here.

Speaker 1:

No problem.

Speaker 3:

Sorry, we went off on a tangent last week. Hopefully this week we are not going to do that. That is my goal.

Speaker 1:

How much you want to bet.

Speaker 3:

I don't want to bet because I'm going to lose that bet and I don't know what you, of all people, would try to bet me.

Speaker 1:

Considering the other things that we were discussing off air, probably better not to bet.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, yeah, we'll talk about that part off air You're blessing again, just because now I'm curious. So yeah, recently you guys launched a beginner electro class right.

Speaker 1:

Well, we're about to. So what we do is we have kind of branches of Pink Kink. Now we're like a pink empire. So we have the podcast itself, then we have the education branch, which is where we do live classes, which is Pink Kink Institute, and then the other branches, merch, but that's not, we'll get into that some other time. So for Pink Kink Institute we do one class every month, mostly rah-rah, because, I'm going to be honest, I 100% keep forgetting what day they are.

Speaker 3:

So we do need to get you a calendar for how you're I have them.

Speaker 1:

I have a phone calendar. I have you know, my phone is actually linked to the Pink Kink calendar. I have one that I write stuff in. Physically I am just so ADHD, but anyway, it's not a problem. So we're just going to start writing it on your arm. Probably get it tattooed to my forehead and then have to laser it off and then get another tattoo so that I actually remember stuff. But you know that gets expensive.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, and painful.

Speaker 1:

Probably a little bit, maybe Sharpie instead.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, that's why I thought Sharpie on the forearm, that way you can see it at all times.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, well then I might pull a moulon and it might rub off, and yeah, we'll find a way around that anyway, figure it out.

Speaker 3:

So we'll get back into the whole time management thing, because clearly we are great at it together.

Speaker 1:

Yes, we have already lost the bet, so yeah, so this beginner lecture class.

Speaker 3:

so is it in person? Is it online?

Speaker 1:

It's going to be through Zoom.

Speaker 3:

OK.

Speaker 1:

And that's where we do all the Pink Kink Institute classes. It's up on Eventbrite right now. You just have to look it up, and it's my first time teaching for Pink Kink podcast. However, this is the class that I have taught several times before. I did it at Winter Fire last year. I did it for Black Rose in DC, also last year. I've taught it at several other conventions. This is my baby, this is my class. You know it's my jam.

Speaker 2:

This is what you love.

Speaker 1:

This is what I do, and I do a version of this in private sessions all the time. So if I fuck up at this point, it's probably I should just be fired.

Speaker 3:

No. So yeah, when you're passionate about something, you're not going to fuck it up. Which, by the way, today this episode is airing on the 17th of January. The class is the 18th, right? Yes? So if you haven't signed up and you're interested, run over to Eventbrite. I'll put the link in the show notes. But you've got like 24 hours. Technically, let me see. Start time is what? 7 PM.

Speaker 1:

Yes.

Speaker 3:

Depending on when this episode drops.

Speaker 1:

you've got 24 to 36 hours, so get over there, which is plenty of time to show up. Oh yeah, plenty of time.

Speaker 3:

And it's on Zoom and you can wear a mask or wear a wig or do whatever you want if you're worried about people seeing, do what you got to do.

Speaker 1:

I will probably be in a wig because I've got, like I don't know, seven or eight of them now and I just keep having so much fun playing around with which one I'm going to wear.

Speaker 3:

See, I have a friend that went crazy and she bought one for Halloween one time and then she bought like eight more on Halloween sales and she was like always wearing it. I was like why? She's like because it's fun. I was like what's wrong with the hair? You got Nothing. I just it's expensive to change my hair color and I can do this really easily, yeah, or extensions.

Speaker 1:

I was actually thinking of getting like colored extensions next time I get my hair done, just because it seems like so much more fun. I was telling my husband that when I actually really do start going super gray, I'm just going to let it go gray. And he's like, no, you won't, you'll just dye it even more weird colors. And I'm like, eh, that's probably more accurate.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, uh, like you can't really tell, luckily, because cameras that I use aren't very Defined, I guess. But my beard starting to go gray, which I I really don't care like I. I have that attitude. If I go gray, I go gray. If I go bald, I go bald. I'm not gonna be the one who fights a losing battle that I have no control over. Time is going to win.

Speaker 1:

Oh the time I'm, I'm gonna fade it, I'm gonna fight it as long as possible.

Speaker 3:

The only why is the exact same way?

Speaker 1:

is they're really hot and really itchy.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, I couldn't do that. I mm-hmm, no, that would. That would bug the hell out of me. Oh god, no, uh, so yeah. So so the actual class. Let's talk a little bit about how you're teaching, what you're teaching Um, all that fun stuff. So people get an idea and then want to go and sign up and, you know, sit in the zoom class tomorrow.

Speaker 1:

Well, they should seriously just want to go, because I'm adorable.

Speaker 3:

Well, yes, we, we already know that.

Speaker 1:

I mean duh. So electro play is Literally what it sounds like. I I had somebody ask me, so is it like? Because I was doing something at the crucible, I was demoing, and somebody came in who had never seen electro play before and I'm like, ooh, newbie, my favorite. So you're like what the heck is this? And I was like, well, this is electro play. And they said, but is it just like static electricity? And I went no, it's electricity. Electricity, it's the kind that you plug into the wall and zappy, zap.

Speaker 1:

Yeah now in person, I can make this feel like a soft little scratch. You know that feeling where you you get scratches on the back and you just go oh yeah. I can make that feeling, or I can make it feel like the hounds of heller biting your ass.

Speaker 3:

See, and I Did a lot of uh you know messing with electronic components and stuff my entire childhood and stuff. I've definitely zapped the hell out of myself in outlets with exposed cables.

Speaker 1:

And it's people like you that are always scared to try it.

Speaker 3:

Not even I'm not scared to try it actually. Uh, it's just I've. I've had that burn on my hand From touching something that was live, that I was told wasn't live, and I'm like. That? That doesn't seem it and I'll break. I brought this up to you when we were just hanging out chatting um, after we had you on. Beth has a violet wand which, uh, what are the most probably, would you say, the most common electro play toy for beginners.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, absolutely it's. It was a digital and I don't think it was one of the ones. That was very powerful.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, it's not, because it, Like it, warms your skin a little bit, but that's about it.

Speaker 1:

Yes, you a little bit of a buzzy tingle.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, um, but so Beth has one, and after we had you on, she and I were hanging out and she said we'll take it home, play with it, you know, see if your wife likes it. And so we sat there on the couch, I plugged it in, started messing with it and rubbing her on her arm and stuff, and she was like okay. And I said you know, does it? What do you? What does it feel like? Do you like it, do you not? She said I'm kind of indifferent about it, like it doesn't turn me on, it's not, it doesn't give me any sexual excitement to do it. Uh, and so I was like all right, well, cool, it doesn't do that. Let's just kind of put it back in the box and I'll give it back to Beth.

Speaker 2:

Mm-hmm.

Speaker 3:

Um, but you were saying it's not so much about the sexual excitement.

Speaker 1:

all the time it's it doesn't have to be, it's sensation play, so you can make the sensation soft and sensual, which is actually my wheelhouse, or you can make it really, really hard. You can go and be a sadistic as possible. So I have run the gamut of everything. In between, I have started doing electro impact, which is where you have the bottom holding a Conductive cable, so that their entire body now becomes the conductor. They are alive. You could poke them in the nose and you'll get zapped. You could poke them on the butt and you'll get zapped, and they get zapped as well, which is super fun. But when you uh, do you impact you, you have to have, obviously, an impact toy that can also be conductive.

Speaker 3:

So you you exactly.

Speaker 1:

It has to be metal. You can't necessarily use a wooden spoon or a paddle, so we have I have carbon fiber canes. I have leather paddles that have Uh, what do you call them like?

Speaker 1:

rivets studded snaps. Yeah, they're like snaps or they're studded bars, and when they make contact, that's when you actually feel the zap and the pain from the hip. I've got a baseball bat and a and a crop that I have wrapped in tape, in conductive tape and yeah. So when you hit with the bat, it's just a mini bat, don't be all like.

Speaker 3:

But like that thought of of when you store all of these a ginormous suitcase. I feel like that. It has to be the biggest suitcase in the world.

Speaker 1:

It's 28 inches.

Speaker 3:

That's not that big well. I feel like you need a storage unit for everything that we've talked about in the past.

Speaker 1:

Honestly at this point I probably do, because I, like, I'm going to Exotica windy city in april and I'm trying to figure out how the hell I'm gonna get all this stuff on the airplane. Um, because it can only be 50 pounds ship it. That's so expensive.

Speaker 3:

That's.

Speaker 1:

I'm pro. No, that's. I've done that for that too. For.

Speaker 3:

Went to naughty in New Orleans. I I drove a bike because she flew. I drive because it's New Orleans to Houston, it's, it's seven hours, it doesn't bother me and I.

Speaker 1:

That wouldn't bother me. This is 12 and a half hours that's not that bad. Oh, okay, fine, you come and pick me up and then drive.

Speaker 3:

Okay, driving driving 12 hours nothing.

Speaker 1:

I'm just gonna sleep in the back. You do everything.

Speaker 3:

All right. If I wasn't an audio engineer and a podcast host and everything like that, I'd be a truck driver maybe, I don't know.

Speaker 1:

Well shit, I could never, I would actually know I.

Speaker 3:

I would get way too distracted and I'd be so bored that big of a truck would probably screw with me, and I drive Small cars and things that I can fit into, like narrow windows.

Speaker 1:

I was gonna say weren't we talking before? Don't you like big booty?

Speaker 3:

I, I mean yes, I do, of course, but I don't need to drive it. A dryer giant truck that is, you know 20 tons worth of stuff. That is not mine, that if I screwed up it comes out of my paycheck.

Speaker 1:

Anyway, back to kink this an electro plane, all that my well, a friend of mine is working on making a Trunk like an old vintage steamer trunk and turn it into like you can turn it sideways, with drawers and plugs and all of this stuff.

Speaker 3:

Very cool.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, he completed a prototype relatively recently, but I don't know if he's done anything with it in the last month or so so I can check on that. But yeah, right now, giant hard case suitcase that I'm like how the hell am I gonna pair this stuff down To get it on an airplane?

Speaker 3:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

But back to the class. The class is gonna have things you know, your general See, remember what I was talking about with the wig, it just itches. There's all these little pieces that are in my eyeballs.

Speaker 3:

Ha, if you're watching on YouTube, I mean go go to YouTube real quick. I'd at least just check out Dara's wig, like I told her off here it looks like something out of the fire, out of the Hunger Games.

Speaker 1:

Yes, I said I'm very effy trinket right now.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, it's very bright and colorful.

Speaker 1:

It's also very itchy. Anyway, back to my class focus. We, you're worse than rah rah. I am oh, so we. It starts out with. You know my personal history with the wand, how I got started with it and which I did talk about on the last Episode that I was on here. Yep, what, two, three years ago we said yep.

Speaker 1:

So it's my personal history, credentials, what I do with it, what I've done with it since, and then the actual history, because this is like an Hours worth of actual class time, an hour and a half almost of class time, and then there's question answer time. At the end. We do safety, obviously, always, always safety. That's probably my biggest part of it. The different kinds of wands. Now I do have another class, that's like kind of a second level, that I've done a few times, which is and I've also combined the two, but for this one I want to just keep it as basic as possible with. So the other things that you can do is you can use a tens unit, which I was gonna tell you about, because I thought maybe that would also be something you'd like to try with your wife, and I've seen them, I've never used one.

Speaker 1:

It's super fun. It's not just for PT.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, that's what I've seen them for is muscle recovery and stuff like that and a bad back and all that. But yeah, it never occurred to me of like, hey, just you know, tie somebody down and I'll actually get them with it.

Speaker 1:

Well, you put it on the. You know how it works. You go, it goes in between the two pads, the electricity goes between the two pads and a tens unit and you put that on either side of the booty hole in the electricity goes across the booty hole.

Speaker 3:

Feel like you're doing experience.

Speaker 1:

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. No, it's fun, it's great, it's, I love it and then. So then you can also do the acupuncture pen which you can get on Amazon and and we've, I've done that with for clit stimulation.

Speaker 3:

Interesting.

Speaker 1:

It does get very interesting. Acupuncture pen sounds like it doesn't feel like needles at all. Okay, it's not.

Speaker 3:

Okay, so it's not an actual acupuncture pen. No, no, no, it doesn't stab you with needles, Like when people think needles. It's just no, no, no, no, no.

Speaker 1:

It's an electrical toy it has in its own electrical current. It's a it just zaps you kind of surface and Interesting. I've made plenty of people come with that thing.

Speaker 3:

All right. See, that's. When I heard acupuncture, I thought needles. And then we go back to what we talked about last week and give me the creeps and Would I of all people that's why I was confused Play with needles?

Speaker 1:

Does that make sense? No, I could see where you would be confused, but think about that I would never. No, and if you didn't listen last week.

Speaker 3:

Go back and listen to last week's giant just amalgamation of talking between Dara and I.

Speaker 1:

But we both expressed that. So giant clusterfuckers it was fun.

Speaker 3:

It was great. I think we were fairly entertaining. But yeah, we both expressed that needles are both a hard limit for both of us.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, that's a no, that's a no. No, no, no, no, no, no.

Speaker 3:

But an acupuncture needle.

Speaker 1:

Okay, so just basically Not acupuncture pen, acupuncture pen.

Speaker 3:

Acupuncture pen. Sorry, Mm-hmm. Like, looking at it, it's just. It looks like a pen, just made of steel. Yes, it's gonna do a link, yeah.

Speaker 1:

I'll email that to you when we're done with this, but it is so much fun. So the cool thing about the difference between the wand and the acupuncture pen is the wand has its own outside source. You have to plug that in, and there's two different kinds. What Beth had was the digital, which means it runs through computer components, and then there's the one that I have which is mechanical and it doesn't have any computer components in it and it's all with the wiring, and that thing is so much more powerful.

Speaker 1:

The one that Beth had was probably 10 to maybe 15,000 volts. Yep, my, my big bad boy, he can go up to 50,000. Cool.

Speaker 3:

No thanks, I'm good.

Speaker 1:

Like that it's awesome.

Speaker 2:

Like again.

Speaker 3:

I, like I said, I'm always willing to try things. I would try it, but I have a feeling that getting that high with it would go.

Speaker 1:

Well, that's the thing. You don't have to go that high. I can still make that feel like a sweet, sexy caress.

Speaker 3:

Okay.

Speaker 1:

I can make it tickle.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, I don't like that part. Okay, well, you're. I don't like being tickled.

Speaker 1:

I don't either, but it's still so much fun. So we I'm I love Electro Like. As you can probably tell, this is like I am staying on topic.

Speaker 2:

Yep.

Speaker 1:

I will at the beginning to get everybody interested. When I'm personally demoing, I'll sit there with the wand and a metal sequins blanket on my arm and just run the electricity across the sequins and it makes all of these really fantastic patterns and sparks going across it Every single month. When I'm done with Risque at Crucible in DC, you guys should join us. I come home with burns on my arms.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, that's Okay.

Speaker 1:

Electrical burns on my arms. How?

Speaker 3:

do you explain that to the general public? I, whatever I'm, accident prone as hell, just wear long sleeves all the time.

Speaker 1:

No, I'm just accident prone as hell. Okay, Besides, it's not. They don't stay that long. The longest I've ever had like the worst one I ever had lasted probably 24 hours Okay.

Speaker 3:

Fair.

Speaker 1:

And if I'm doing this on a Saturday and then I take Sunday to recover, it's not a big deal. But also like how, when people scratch their arm and it leaves like a red, that's what it looks like.

Speaker 3:

Okay.

Speaker 1:

But I'm the weirdo that just sits there and goes oh, I love mine.

Speaker 3:

It enjoys it.

Speaker 1:

I love the. Oh, I just oh, I love it. I love it so much I don't. You can't top this without loving it. Oh, if you can't handle touching the electricity yourself, you cannot top this.

Speaker 3:

Fair enough.

Speaker 1:

It's not like with flogging or with hitting somebody with a paddle you're not necessarily getting hit, you can still do it with somebody else. This stuff you have to be able to handle feeling it.

Speaker 3:

Okay, so that is actually something good to bring up for listeners who are interested in it and stuff like that. If you're going to play with it, make sure your partner is on board, because they're going to feel it too.

Speaker 1:

Yes, okay, I've actually had clients come in for a class where it's like very hands-on and I'm teaching you the actual techniques of doing it, and they don't like it.

Speaker 3:

Okay.

Speaker 1:

It's like okay, then why did you sign up for this?

Speaker 3:

Yeah, that's so, did they not? They knew they didn't like it before they signed up, or?

Speaker 1:

They knew they didn't like the sensation. But their partner really, really likes electricity. They tried it, they love it. They bring their partner to do this and to learn how to do it to them. But the only thing the partner can do is use the wand. You can't get into the more intimate aspects. You can't use your hands. You can't use your tongue. You can't use the handheld items Like I have a. I have a horse curry comb.

Speaker 3:

I'm sorry what.

Speaker 1:

It's a horse curry comb. You know the brush for the horse.

Speaker 3:

I mean, I just know like a regular brush.

Speaker 1:

Well, it's a curry comb. It's like you. It's a circle within a circle and it has a handle. You're looking it up now, aren't you?

Speaker 3:

Yeah, I am, and I'm feeling everybody listening is. Oh okay, yeah, we have this for a dog. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

It's a metal brush thingy with teeth that are kind of like they're not like sharp teeth, but they're kind of like curvy.

Speaker 3:

They look like the baking, the little like cookie cutters. Yeah, it's a little bit like that and they're metal.

Speaker 1:

But in order to use it. You see how the handle is like plastic. It's covered in plastic. If you just hold that plastic, nothing's going to happen.

Speaker 3:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

So you have to like, continue to, you have to hold on to the metal part. You can either hold it with your hand, like this kind of bracing the metal in between these fingers, or you can hook it on the inside, like this, with these going like that kind of like you know, brrr.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

And you have to be able to handle feeling the sensation against your fingers, or that is not going to work.

Speaker 3:

Interesting.

Speaker 1:

Plus, there's a very high risk of getting zapped yourself.

Speaker 3:

If you don't like that, yeah that's. That would be a no.

Speaker 1:

I do it all the time. Don't wear long earrings, guys. In that one the hard way.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, I feel like, see, I'm very much what's the worst that could happen? Kind of guy of like a hey, let's make sure this. I want to make sure that, not like in a dire anxiety filled, like oh my God, I could die at any moment, kind of thing, but like when I'm approaching a situation of like, hey, we're going to fix this, we're going to fix this outlet on a house. Okay, did we turn off the power? Yeah, okay, cool, did we turn off the power? No, okay, what's the worst that can happen? Oh, it's 110. It's just going to give you a little zinge, like you'll be fine.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, then your whole arm falls off. What it does not.

Speaker 3:

I've gotten shocked with 110 enough times in my life that it does not fall off. I have both my arms, thank you. Now my brother's been hit with 220, which was that knocked him off a ladder. But I don't have his permission to tell that full story. So, okay, wow, I'm fixing a house, so that's the story, like we're fixing a house and he fell off the ladder, anyways. But yeah, so ElectroPlay is just your number one. If you have to rank everything in the world, of course you're going to enjoy teaching it. Of course everybody who's going to learn it is going to enjoy it, because, I mean, you're very charismatic, you're adorable, like you said, thank you, and you make things fun. You make things fun to talk about. So the link to the class on Eventbrite is in the show notes If you are interested, if you're curious. It's not like you're making people get on camera and zap themselves or anything like that.

Speaker 1:

No, no, no. Well, if you want to zap yourself and you have your own wand, it is, bring your own wand. And do you remember when I was on your podcast last time we were talking about Electro and I forget her name had the wand? And she was too scared to use it.

Speaker 3:

Yep.

Speaker 1:

And I was like no, no, here's what you do.

Speaker 3:

And you walked her through it.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, Walked her through it and then she was like, oh my God, I love this, yep, I can do that.

Speaker 3:

Okay, so if somebody doesn't have one right now, but they're just kind of, their interest is peaked at ElectroPlay, they could still show up and learn and just kind of.

Speaker 1:

It's honestly. I always say it's better to learn about it first before you spend the money, because this shit is expensive.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, well, most toys are, and that's the interesting thing is that, like for a class like this, it's great because you can like, if you're curious and you want to dip a toe in, but you don't want to drop, you know, 100, 150 bucks on a toy to try it, you can at least start working with it.

Speaker 1:

I'm sorry, 150. That's funny.

Speaker 3:

I mean, you can get little ones for my.

Speaker 1:

Yeah no, my wand was 300.

Speaker 3:

Okay, Well, I was trying to be you know, kind of ease people in and not scare them away with a price tag immediately.

Speaker 1:

But my point being but it doesn't matter, because if you want to do it, you're going to go ahead and do it. There's justification right there.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, but some people some people will go and I'm too cheap to spend that kind of money on something that I'm not sure I'm going to like. That's true. So, but that's why your class is great is because it gives them a little bit of an idea. So if they're, they're kind of interested, but again, they don't know that they want to drop that kind of money. They can go and learn about it and go. Okay, yes, this is. This is something I want to explore deeper. I want to make the monetary commitment.

Speaker 3:

Whereas a lot of the sexy toys that we get and play with and you know everybody incorporates in their life, there is no. How do you try it without you know? Committing $100 or $200 to a remote control vibrator that you can use on your partner while they're half a country away? Yeah, there is no of like. How do we try that and see if that works for our sexy play? It's you drop the money, you do it, and if one of you likes it, you do. If you like it, you do. If you don't, well crap, we're not getting that money back.

Speaker 1:

Well, that's the fun part about going to different places where you can actually try out demos. That's true. That's the easiest toy that you're getting demoed with.

Speaker 3:

Certain ones. Yeah, I mean, I don't think you should try a remote control vibrator. That of somebody else's, no.

Speaker 1:

But probably not.

Speaker 3:

I mean, that's just me because I'm I'm weird about.

Speaker 1:

They do Sibian's at different events and you put condoms on it. They do protective gear on that.

Speaker 3:

I also know another guy who worked for a specific radio host who had a Sibian in his Studio and when he was an intern his job was just to clean it. So no, because he wasn't in the room when it the models or actresses or porn stars were using it, they would just wheel it out and wheel it to hit, like I guess wherever he was he would have to go clean it.

Speaker 1:

No, yeah, not work, oh, that was the story he told me.

Speaker 3:

So yeah, that was many, many years ago that I worked with him and yeah because when he told me I was like dude, that sounds awesome, he was like it's not as awesome as it sounds, like it's just a wet saddle that I have to get. I have to dry it off and then grab Clorox wipes, wipe it down, dry it off again, then wipe it down again, like so it was more of a cleaning chore than anything.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, that's. That's like cleaning a toilet. That's just not fun.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, why would you? No you get it. If you get a pleasure out of that, cool. But if that's your job, when you're trying to break into a business and that's what they make you do, that's it's borderline hazing, yeah, anyways. I mean, yeah, the media business is a giant hazing party for people who want to break in and just put up with as much Shit as you can until somebody decides to give you a job that you can hopefully pay bills with.

Speaker 3:

Anyways, that's another so, we're gonna have to settle this, whatever bet. I don't even know what we bet off the air.

Speaker 1:

I don't. I think you said no bet because you knew you would lose, but yeah.

Speaker 3:

That's true. It for once I I shied away from a bet that didn't bite me in the ass Usually the ones I do I'm like. No, I don't want to bet on that team to win the game because you know, what could I do? I could walk away with a couple hundred dollars, and then I don't bet and they end up winning said game.

Speaker 1:

I, I would have offered if you, if you lose, I hit you in the face with a boob.

Speaker 3:

And again, I'm not gonna go down that road before my wife would be would be thinking of this. It's a good thing she doesn't listen, although play of you we know who do would immediately run to her ago. Did you hear about what air I heard said he's gonna let some woman smack him in the face of their boobs? Yeah, you enjoy it. Well, I really do. That's it. That's enough of a tangent for right now. I appreciate you being here. I appreciate you walking us through electro and everybody. Go and sign up for the pink kick Institute, the electro Wand. What was the actual title?

Speaker 1:

The magic of the violet wand the magic of the violet wand.

Speaker 3:

Okay, there's a link for the event right down in the show notes if you're listening to this after the 18th of January. Sorry you missed it, but I'm sure Dara will be doing it again Because it's something very, yeah, but the pink kick Institute. If you just Google event bright pink kink Institute, it shows up.

Speaker 1:

So it's not just my electro class. We have classes every month that are ridiculously good, and we are working on getting them to be able to be sold on Etsy as well very cool, very cool.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, see, and Beth has her blowjob class. She has her. You know how to go down on her class. She's got the dual class for both and I think she has it. She also has a class on prostate play. So, beth, darling calm, if you want to check out those classes guys or girls, holes, bulls, whatever you are and make sure you check out the pink kink podcast with Dara and Rara, itunes, spotify, where else?

Speaker 1:

literally everywhere that you can get podcasts.

Speaker 3:

We are signed up there you go and then make sure you follow them on Twitter, facebook, tick tock, whatever socials you use. I have a feeling if you just search pink kink, they're gonna pop up and it's all Rara.

Speaker 1:

Oh, you wanted to ask about time management. Yeah that's my answer, rara. Oh okay, so she's just kind of she like snap at you well, she know, she understands that I can't social media to save my life, okay, and so she handles all of that. I Just, you know, I will research episodes, I'll put stuff together, but she does most of that. I'm I'm the comic relief.

Speaker 3:

See, then, that this is probably why we should have rethought this. Doing it just the two of us, because that's my role on this, even though everybody listening is going air. You're not funny, I know, but like my job is to be the one who sits there, makes the goofy dick joke, or or kind of lightens the mood, or anything like that.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, the two of us together is probably not the greatest idea.

Speaker 3:

No, but I mean it's a fun train wreck to observe.

Speaker 1:

I have I hope it was a fun train wreck to be a part of it was.

Speaker 3:

It really was. I really appreciate you being here. I love you being here. Hopefully we get to hang out in person soon.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, that'd be awesome. Yeah, so clearly you're coming to pick me up for Chicago and Driving me.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, I have infinite vacation time apparently now for work.

Speaker 3:

Check out the pink kink podcast for us. Come with us podcast on Facebook and Instagram. At come with us pod on Twitter. You can DM us there if you have questions, comments, concerns episode suggestions. You just want to tell me that I'm boring and you want Beth back. Go for it. It's not gonna hurt my feelings, but I will pass along to her because you want to tell her how much you miss her.

Speaker 3:

Or come with us confessions at gmailcom. That's come with us confessions at gmailcom. Again, if there's something we haven't dove into, feel free to let us know something you want to, you want to hear about. This is how we ended up, you know, contacting Dara to come on with, if you listen, last week because Somebody wanted to know about them Dom and getting smacked around in the face with boobs, or but so Feel free to email us. Come with us confessions at gmailcom, dara. I appreciate you being here, I appreciate you taking all this time to hang out with me and we will see you guys next week. See ya. Thanks for listening to the come with us podcast.

Speaker 2:

Be sure to follow us on social media at come with us podcast and send in your questions, comments and confessions To come with us. Confessions at gmailcom. Until next time, keep it fun, flirty and naughty.

Intro to Pink Kink Institute Classes
Introduction to Electro and Sensation Play
Electricity Play and Safety Measures
ElectroPlay and Toy Demonstrations