Embracing the Unconventional: Fetishes Explored

Are you ready to embrace the unconventional? Come With Us as we explore the charged, fascinating world of unique sexual fetishism - we're talking everything from nasolingus to climacophilia. We don't shy away from these taboo topics, and neither should you. We've all had those sick days when we're not feeling up to intimacy, but what about sucking your partner's nose? Does that sound appealing? This is your chance to understand the good, the kinky, and the ugly of sexy stuff.

Ever wondered about the psychology behind uncommon fetishes? We're shedding light on queer quirks like auto-gymnephilia, podophilia, and psychrophilia. This isn't about encouraging a world of make-believe, but about understanding the human need for emotional connection. So, whether you're turned on by cold temperatures, feet, or a stuttering voice, this podcast invites you to look beyond the norm.

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:00

Are you saying you faked with me?

Speaker 2: 0:02

Yeah, I just can't say it and it says I'm so cool, I'm not wrong.

Speaker 3: 0:09

Now, you're single. What do you know about sexual relations? Is it true that if you don't use it, you use it?

Speaker 2: 0:16

I'm a little worried about being a slut. You're listening to the Come With Us podcast, talking the good, the kinky and the ugly. Here are your hosts, beth and Erin.

Speaker 3: 0:28

Hello, hello, hello. All you sexy holes and polls, welcome to Come With Us podcast, where we know that sexy stuff matters as much as the lovey-dovey stuff. We're here to help you get all the pleasure you deserve. And today, actually, we're going to talk about some really outrageous ways of getting your jollies. And there are tons of them. There are so many fetishes Erin's already laughing so many, so many fetishes, and again, we're going to talk about them. We're going to laugh with you. If you have them, great. If you don't go, oh my god.

Speaker 3: 1:01

I can't believe somebody else gets turned on by that, because we all get turned on by different things. But the key is safety and consent. Two things safety and consent. But anyway, I'm Beth Darling. You can find me and my newest book, the Five Kinds of Intimacy how to Keep your Love Alive, as well as my video oral classes, at BethDarlingcom. So please go there and check it out if you haven't. And I'm here with Erin, and Erin and I are both going to try not to sniff and sneeze too much. We're recording from a distance, but both of us have the sniffles today. So I was like we got to find out if there's a fetish for sick people, because not that I want to actually have sexy right now, but it'd be nice to think somebody wanted to have sexy with me, right.

Speaker 1: 1:45

I mean I guess I don't know. Yeah, like when you're sick, like I don't know, when you're sick you're really not in the mood, which luckily, like I'm on the real tail end of it. Like now mine's just seasonal fall allergy part that's kicking in, but still like when I was actually like I didn't feel well on Friday and Saturday, like, oh, I didn't want to do anything.

Speaker 3: 2:09

Yeah, I'm kind of like there. I just I've got a headache. I'm much more tired than you, anyway, but I just looked up. So there is one. It's not really sick, but there is an arousal to sucking on a partner's nose. Yeah, it's called nasolingus.

Speaker 1: 2:27

I had that written down as one of the weird ones. I found that's just, and I kind of want to find somebody who has this as a quote unquote fetish. I think we're being really lenient with the actual definition fetish, like, ok, that cannot be the only thing, or the main thing that really gets you off is the idea of sucking on your partner's nose, first off, second off, I really want to talk to somebody who enjoys it Because, like, is it the tip of the nose where there's no nostrils, or are you trying to like, like a little baby booger sucker and like the whole thing, like what the fuck is that?

Speaker 1: 3:12

Like, if you have it, you know I'm not going to lie. I've got a little bit of judgment in my head for you, but it's not like I think you're a bad person. You're just kind of out there weird. I mean, I'm out there weird about plenty of shit. So you know.

Speaker 3: 3:26

I'm not hating on you, I just like. Right, it's so bizarre, right, that's when it's not our turn on. It feels like, oh, like, why.

Speaker 1: 3:35

That's the thing is like the tip, like I've kissed the tip of my wife's nose all the time, but yeah, like the thought of like, because the way they like nasal lingus, what does the end of that word sound like?

Speaker 3: 3:48

Lingus like tongue. Well, link linguses starts from linguistics and stuff, but so I think it's all right.

Speaker 1: 3:53

Yes, but come a lingus which is eating pussy. Mm-hmm, to eat pussy. You got to get in there. You got to get like you dive right in that. Yeah, like, how are you diving right into a protrusion like a nose and there's only noses? Like, if you have, okay, so if you have this fetish, do you only seek out partners who have a giant nose? Do you like nostril size matter? Like that's just so fucking weird. Yeah, like the whole booger part. Like I remember Years ago when they came out with this, like if any of you have friends or relatives that have had a kid recently and you've gone out and shopped for the like supplies for, like a baby shower, stuff like that, yeah, I have plenty of people around me who have had kids.

Speaker 1: 4:37

There is now a contraption that instead of the old, like turkey baser looking booger sucker that a bunch of people my age and, you know, born in the 80s, grew up around, there's now a straw and it looks like a fucking crazy straw and it goes into the child's nose and then the end of the straw attaches like you just put it in your mouth and you suck, and it's not that now there's a filter where it stops everything, but it doesn't stop everything. Yeah, yeah, thank you.

Speaker 3: 5:07

Yeah, yeah, I don't want to be stuck in my kids boogers every.

Speaker 1: 5:11

Every time I want to gross out my wife. I bring it up because the first time I saw it at a CVS, I took a picture and I sent it to her and I said, oh my god, could you imagine being a parent and having to do that? She was like this is why I'm not a parent.

Speaker 3: 5:22

Yeah, no no, that that's yeah, that's bizarre, so you know, but but they talk about. So fetish is something. A fetish is to feel aroused, to feel sexual arousal by something that isn't typically a sexual object or a sexual action, and a lot of times there's thought that this comes about somehow from childhood. So Maybe you know this nose Sucking, what? Maybe because people do tend to kiss babies on their nose, right? Maybe maybe this was a toddler and somebody was kissing their nose and they had a an arousal Reaction, right, which is not. It's not. They don't have the context of sex. It's just that your body gets stimulated and somehow you wind up with erection. But you know, hell, maybe the wind was blowing at the same time get an erection.

Speaker 1: 6:13

Sorry, but toddler can't get an erection toddlers get erections all the time Don't.

Speaker 3: 6:18

Sweetheart. Seriously, yes, they do.

Speaker 1: 6:21

Okay.

Speaker 3: 6:22

Oh, yes, yes, they do. They wake up with them all the time. They have them all the time, it's just not. They have them in utero. Sometimes fetuses can have an erection in utero. Yeah, because it's just biology. It's just blood flow got there and and. But then, as we get older, we try to figure out, oh, what's making this happen? And that's when we start.

Speaker 1: 6:44

Somebody's nose. Yeah, yeah, have fun.

Speaker 3: 6:47

Yeah, so who knows? But, um, yeah, it's kind of interesting and, yeah, okay, so that's so interesting, though, right, that we don't even know that that baby boys have erections on their own, and that's, yeah, everybody, it happens and and sometimes it it's a big surprise and it's hard to not like shame them, because sometimes parents are like, oh my god, right, what's going on, and it's can be uncomfortable, but something we have to deal with. So, anyway, so okay, so all right, what are some of the ones? Or what's one of the weird ones, the most unusual, or one that struck you the most?

Speaker 1: 7:24

So there's a couple I'm gonna go with not the most extreme yet, okay. Okay, so my, my pronunciation of this is going to be horrendous. Yeah, I don't even know if it's a real word, I haven't even looked because I feel like they just made up a bunch of stuff in this article.

Speaker 3: 7:44

Yeah, I don't know. I did try to find some of these words and dictionaries than the dictionaries didn't that I was using didn't have them.

Speaker 1: 7:50

Yeah, I'm not a Galmatophilia, a Galmatophilia, a Galmatophilia.

Speaker 1: 7:58

Yeah, anyways that is being aroused by statues, which I mean, if you're a, if you're a female or a gay man, the statue of the David, like that dude was cut, good job. Like you're attracted to a really fit dude, cool, like, yeah, I mean, but like what? And there are other sexual statues out there, like naked women, naked men that you know, greek, roman, like renaissance Sculptors made, but I don't know how far it goes into. Is it human statues or is it just like because somebody will Put a giant triangle in an art gallery and go, oh, that's my art. It's like you, mother, fuck, you made a triangle. You're not Pythagoras like, and you were in Pythagoras, I know, didn't make the triangle, stop it, nerd. But that doesn't make it art sometimes because you put a giant triangle together. But does that giant triangle turn somebody on or is it just? Are they a human, humanistic statues?

Speaker 3: 9:01

no, okay. So here I can't believe this because I actually went. I was on a local TV show a few weeks ago To talk about a man and I forgot West Texas who was marrying his house and that's called Objects de Felia, where you give objects not specifically statues, but objects they become, you know, sexual forms of arousal force. So I just texted you, aaron, because when I was preparing for that one then I found I'm other famous big stories or whatever, like a woman who pretended to marry the Statue of Liberty and Then another woman who was, quote, dating the Statue of Liberty but married her chandelier.

Speaker 1: 9:51

No, no, no, no. These are people who really need help. They, they probably do.

Speaker 3: 9:56

We talked about like the loneliness factor right when you really, when you're so scared of investing in a human that you have to, it's not.

Speaker 1: 10:06

Sorry again, we're not going into the world of make-believe here. You cannot marry your house. That is not. It is not legally possible. Right whatever judge signed off on this.

Speaker 3: 10:20

No, no, no, no, no judge did, and they know that, Right, he just called it a marriage and he was having a ceremony even though he knew it wasn't gonna be a legal thing.

Speaker 1: 10:29

Okay, well, if anybody showed up to it, yeah, other than like news crews going, what in the fuck is going on here? If you were somebody who was a friend of this guy and you are not a good enough friend or relative to get him the medic or the Medical and mental help that he needs, you're a bad friend. You're a bad relative because that's not like just like this woman with a chandelier. No, sorry, ma'am, you really like we need to get you at least talking to a doctor. There's some type of chemical imbalance or you know, maybe it is a trust issue, whatever, but I know.

Speaker 1: 11:01

I know people go through and live this Mary fantasy life that Isn't real, because you don't know how far they're gonna go with it, the more you encourage. Just like when a kid runs around with a cape on. It Goes, mommy, I'm a superhero, and you go oh yeah, you're my superhero, sweetie. Well, when the kid jumps off the fucking garage and breaks his arm five minutes later, you have nobody to blame but yourself, because you're the idiot who went. Yeah, you are a superhero and you can fly just like Superman.

Speaker 3: 11:27

No, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1: 11:33

Stop letting people live in a world of make-believe and encouraging them, because things get out of hand when you do that.

Speaker 3: 11:38

Yeah, right, but do it with kindness, right. But yeah, people may need emotional human connection.

Speaker 1: 11:46

Margo, we need to really have a talk. We think this chandelier obsession that you're having is gotten out of hand. Yeah, it would mean a lot to us if you went and sat down and talked to a professional. Look, yeah, here's some names we've picked out. We vetted them. We think they're. They're not gonna judge you, but they're gonna help.

Speaker 3: 12:02

Right. You deserve more love than a chandelier can give you, I think. I think, yeah, okay, what about this one? I thought was auto Gynephilia? I've never heard of this auto gynephilia and that was men Feeling aroused by the thought of themselves as a female form. Right doesn't mean they're actually doing it, it's just that somehow or another like the thought of themselves, whether it's in reality. So maybe they are dressing up or something or just imagining it. That that's what turns them on. Okay that was kind of interesting.

Speaker 1: 12:43

I don't know. I mean, you have to be a really like. I Know what I look like. I would be. I'm not the most attractive dude, I would be an ugly ass woman.

Speaker 3: 12:53

If you just Swap the parts down below, well, maybe maybe it's like people just imagining, like if I was, you know five, but eight, I don't know. But well, but then there's people that are like the opposite of claustrophobic they're claustrophilia, where they get aroused, enclosed in confined spaces.

Speaker 1: 13:14

No, yeah, not claustrophobic. So much as I can't, it doesn't bother me. It makes me have to pee.

Speaker 2: 13:24

I.

Speaker 1: 13:25

Fucking hide and seek when I was a kid yeah, because like if I was hiding like in the bushes or something like that, waiting like all of a sudden. I have to pee. I'd be like god damn it. Why? Yeah, well, this sucks right.

Speaker 3: 13:36

It's your body's way of getting you out of there.

Speaker 1: 13:38

I agree, I don't, I get. But I'm not like like my brain isn't uncomfortable, it's just my bladder decides like hey, man, by the way, you had too much beer, good job. Yeah, if I'm hiding, like getting ready to like, jump out and scare my wife, my body will be like hey, it's time to like. Hey, why don't we go take a leak instead of doing this? Because it makes me a good husband, because I don't jump out and scare my wife.

Speaker 3: 13:59

I would like to. I think that's subconscious, that's right, it's good, okay. Well then, here this one was one of the ones. I know that you were like, oh my god, and that was Climacophilia. Climb like you said it Not me, I'm not. I'm just guessing how the pronunciation Climacophilia.

Speaker 1: 14:17

Yeah, look at that, I did it.

Speaker 3: 14:18

Oh, there you go.

Speaker 1: 14:20

I was the first try too I had. I didn't do that all year or anything, so ha, ha Yay.

Speaker 3: 14:24

I'll get it.

Speaker 1: 14:25

It's nerds who make up these fake words.

Speaker 3: 14:29

They can't fool you. So yeah, so arousal to falling downstairs. We're like don't do this at home, I just said home.

Speaker 1: 14:39

Well, see, here comes the the dad level Aaron thing coming out of it hurt. You found out that when you fell down the stairs it got you turned on. Now how you fell down the stairs is more interesting to me, because was it, did your wife get pissed at you Would push you down the stairs? Did you trip where you like? Here's alright, here's dad. Aaron, don't fall down the stairs to get turned on. I don't care how much it actually turns you on. Don't try it in real life because, guess what, you fall down the stairs, you snap your neck. You just fall down the stairs. If you're already turned on, you snap your dick. You fall down the stairs, break an arm, break a leg, all kinds of shit not cheap to do, especially with, you know, healthcare costs. Don't do that.

Speaker 3: 15:25

Well, it's just like auto erotic asphyxiation right breath play. Yeah, don't, don't ever do that by yourself that don't always find a partner.

Speaker 1: 15:34

If you're gonna, if you want to be choked, find a partner who can call 911 with a phone?

Speaker 1: 15:38

Yes, yes, don't, ever, ever. And trust me, right? Yeah, it doesn't turn me off if my wife puts her hands on my throat. I don't like really being choked. I mean, at least she's never applied that much pressure to choke me because she's got small hands and I'm got a giant fat neck, but it don't ever like I would not ever think of. I'm also the worst-case scenario guy. What's the worst that happens? Your friends walk in on a mangled dead body with Spittle and blue face, with your dick in your hand. Oh god, yeah. And maybe not even your friends. Maybe it's your mom, maybe it's your sister, maybe it's your cousin, maybe it's your roommate who knows?

Speaker 1: 16:22

Yeah, maybe you have a friend of me, relationship with your roommate and guess what? They're gonna laugh at you when they walk in your body.

Speaker 3: 16:28

Well, it'd be scarred for life too. Well, that too, but yeah, don't all right, so let's. Yeah, so don't do just cuz you have a, you can find other ways. And the good thing is about fetishes we're not just stuck with one, only one fetish. You can find other ways of getting aroused.

Speaker 1: 16:44

So you know, find other ways, find other ways did Read one time when we were doing research on a different episode. At times I don't remember why we I started looking up auto erotic Exficiate x fix. Auto erotic x fixie. Auto erotic Exficiation. Okay, that's sure, that's it and One I don't. I don't think it was a doctor, but somebody in like the kink community was like well, if you really want to try it, use your hand and not an inanimate object, because when you pass out, your body's natural reaction is the muscles in your hand are going to let go. So if you really get turned on by doing it, use your hand and Just know. If you pass out, you don't know when. You're gonna wait like you will wake up eventually because your body will let air back in your, your throat. You're like into your lungs, but at the same time you'd yeah, no, I really don't do it standing above you going hey man.

Speaker 3: 17:42

You okay? Yeah, just don't do it. Yeah, have fantasies, have imaginations, talk it through. All of those things totally cool.

Speaker 1: 17:49

Yeah, if you're gonna do dangerous shit, have a partner there. There at least somebody on standby to call 911.

Speaker 3: 17:56

Yeah, so moving on. So then there's one I never thought of it as really a fetish, but apparently some people take it to that extreme which is Cato Catop Tronophilia I totally butchered that. But having sex in front of mirrors, right, which most of us think is just fun, but some people never done it, but I mean, the idea sounds fun. You've never had sex in front of a mirror. Nope, oh my gosh, even like a bathroom counter with the mirror behind you.

Speaker 1: 18:29

Nope, yes, bathroom counter no oh. Well, yeah, I mean anniversary coming up, we'll find a way to.

Speaker 3: 18:40

Oh, yeah, I.

Speaker 1: 18:41

Mean coming up like six months from now, but oh well, do it before then.

Speaker 3: 18:45

But yeah, it's pretty cool. I Kind of like the ones on the side, because that way everybody can kind of be glancing or something, but anyway, that's just me.

Speaker 1: 18:53

I mean, do it in a house of mirrors, yeah.

Speaker 3: 18:57

Oh my god, that would be a much, but anyway.

Speaker 1: 19:01

Um, so yeah, really made me go. What the fuck? Nebula felia.

Speaker 3: 19:05

Nebula feel ya, what's Nebula?

Speaker 1: 19:08

You're turned on by Fogg. Oh my gosh, I'm guessing you live in Seattle or the Northeast.

Speaker 3: 19:14

Wow, how I don't. That would be weird Huh.

Speaker 1: 19:19

Huh, interesting, I don't get it. Okay, I don't know what.

Speaker 1: 19:24

Fogg is a turn on Like it's a cool thing, like Fogg is a cool atmospheric weather-related thing because, like, driving past and like there's a bunch of empty fields, well, for right now near where I live, eventually they're going to get bulldozed and built into homes. But driving early in the morning to work or driving late at night home and like, especially when we're getting into October, the Fogg starts to set in right Like as the sun rises or sets. It looks really cool. It's kind of creepy, that's cool it is cool, it doesn't make my dick hard.

Speaker 3: 19:59

Yeah, yeah, but so many people are attracted to feet and I don't understand that. But that is. But, peter, you can touch, you can't touch Fogg Powed. I know, but I don't know. I mean again, yeah, it's just, feet are something that are like Potophilia, potophilia, p-o-d-o-philia yeah, is it potophilia?

Speaker 1: 20:19

Yeah, potophilia.

Speaker 3: 20:20

That's on. Yeah, I saw that. Oh, then there's one the act like being aroused by people stuttering. That's the listmophilia. No, I think it's actually good, because if somebody stutters, then let them know that there's somebody out there that's going to be aroused by that.

Speaker 1: 20:38

That's cool. Most people stutter, are very, very self-conscious of it, so they're going to think that you're like.

Speaker 3: 20:43

Right, so you have to share it with them.

Speaker 1: 20:45

But not only that, like, just like people can play that. Oh well, you're fetishizing, you know you're fetishizing women with big asses. Well, okay, then am I not supposed to like what I like? So just be careful with that, because people are way more sensitive about their stutters than people are about their big asses.

Speaker 3: 21:07

Well, yeah, yeah, okay. What about people who are aroused by being cold or watching others who are cold? What's that Psychrophilia?

Speaker 1: 21:20

I don't understand.

Speaker 3: 21:21

I don't understand. Yeah, oh, and the tickling fetish. Tickling, that definitely. I've met people who are really into tickling. I don't get that either.

Speaker 1: 21:31

Why? I don't know Like. Is it the loss of control?

Speaker 3: 21:35

Is it the yeah, I know that's, that's nismole. I don't know, I can't even begin.

Speaker 1: 21:40

Okay, we're going to have to Next year we have to find like one of these conventions where I have to go find somebody and just ask them like all kinds of fucking quit, because Okay, we can't Are they turned on by the?

Speaker 1: 21:51

Are they turned on by the act of being tickled? Are they turned on by the lack of control? Are they Like what happens when you're tickled and you're laughed so hard that, like, your entire core hurts John fucking hurts to your bones, that every muscle in your core hurts, like? Is that what you really like? Is that a point where you realize you've gone too far, like I?

Speaker 3: 22:11

Yeah, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know. Oh, and then there's Q-U-I-R, oh, querophilia, which is about hands or fingers.

Speaker 1: 22:25

Querophilia.

Speaker 3: 22:26

Yeah, like with Even with a good manicure and stuff, and I do know I've had people that really like certain colored nails or something, or really, if you don't have your hands manicured, well all the time they're not turned on, so that's there's that I mean.

Speaker 1: 22:42

See, it doesn't have to, like your hands don't have to be manicured, but like when my wife goes and gets her nails done. Yeah, it's hot, yeah, like some of the hottest. Any guy will tell you if your wife or girlfriend comes home with like what's the white one, the half, the?

Speaker 3: 22:57

French, yeah, french tip.

Speaker 1: 22:59

Like there are some really good pictures to be had, while, like from your point of view, with a hand with a French tip nail wrapped around your dick yeah, I heard it with that porn stars have those nails. It's now been ingrained in the men for God decades now, because the internet's been around for that long.

Speaker 3: 23:19

Well, and some people like with bright red, right yeah, bright red nails and bright red lipstick around their cocks and stuff. Yeah, yeah, so okay.

Speaker 1: 23:26

But I understand being attracted to like. I don't know, I don't think I'd like, I don't know, call it a fetish. Yeah, I wouldn't like Okay, it's like I'm not turned on by other women's hands. Yeah, like I don't see another woman's hands who got a manicure and be like, oh my God, no, like, okay, cool, you're just.

Speaker 3: 23:45

But some people are just like the side of big boobs or a big ass, or a small ass, or small boobs or whatever, I don't know, tummies, whatever. So, yeah, what about? Oh, ghost spectrophilia.

Speaker 1: 24:01

Yeah, I'm not going to go down the realm of whether ghosts are real and if they actually manifest in the same way that you think they did in Ghostbusters.

Speaker 3: 24:10

Nope, but oh. And then there's like people who are attracted to monsters, or remember, or the guy on the radio that I was with that like aliens yeah, lost after aliens. I thought that was pretty interesting.

Speaker 1: 24:22

But again, like see if you're going to, you got to show me proof, you can't. His idea of an alien is what cartoon character would be. It's like we talked about a couple of weeks ago with Jessica Rabbit. Like that's like what you're imagining an alien looks like is what you've been preconditioned to think. It looks like You're attracted to a cartoon character. You're not attracted to the actual thing because you don't know what the real thing is.

Speaker 3: 24:51

Obviously yes, yeah, and the same thing with ghosts, right, I mean, I think. But anyway, yeah, yeah, all right, it's bizarre, all right. What else have you got? Uh that's just time for one more, two more.

Speaker 1: 25:08

Trick of Philia, yeah, which is aroused by human hair, which can be your arm hair, chest hair, the hair on your head, pubic hair, anything which, okay, I mean, not Again. Not one of those things that, like, immediately turns me out like I like my wife's hair to be done. Okay, like what she puts effort into it, cool.

Speaker 3: 25:32

Right.

Speaker 1: 25:33

I don't get turned on at the thought of her hat, like Just her hair, right it's not to the level of her hair. I don't want any of the old hair, right when she washes her hair Like it doesn't like turn me on to see the little bits that come out. Oh yeah, the hair, yeah, ends up in the drain. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's okay.

Speaker 3: 25:56

All right, then my last one is a, a Dylophilia arousal to wood. To wood like fences and stuff, and like trees.

Speaker 1: 26:07

Yeah, I know I, yeah, I saw that one too. I mean I Don't like. What are you doing with the wood?

Speaker 3: 26:18

I Guess, maybe just even looking at it or being near it or something gets you around.

Speaker 1: 26:23

Having a wooden table. Okay, yeah, that could be, but I don't know if that would count, like if you're getting off the fact that you're on the wooden table and not the fact that you're having sex with somebody. That's weird.

Speaker 3: 26:35

Well, no, but it's the fact that you're fit. The wooden table is what turns you on. It makes you want to have sex with them, right.

Speaker 1: 26:42

But you don't want to have sex with the person, you just want to have sex on the table. You would fuck, you would hand if you were sitting there, if the table is the part that turns you on.

Speaker 3: 26:49

I guess I mean, but so yeah, everybody's gonna have different levels and fetishes. It's just some people, it's just gonna add to it some people, it's gonna be the whole thing.

Speaker 1: 26:59

Well, don't go jacking off on any of the trees in my neighborhood, please.

Speaker 3: 27:04

That would be exhibitionists, right, I mean.

Speaker 1: 27:09

It's like middle of the night where there's nobody around and they're scared of getting caught. That's that could be true. That wouldn't be, exhibitionism, that's just. I want to jack off on a tree. Please don't do that in my neighborhood I don't give it. Go off into the woods, go camping go jack off on a tree. That's fine, I don't care. Yeah, really would get you.

Speaker 3: 27:29

Okay, who knows? The point is right that people are. We're all different, we all get turned on by all sorts of interesting things and again, if it's not your kink, you're fetish. You probably think it's weird and I think that's. That's okay. We're all allowed to be weird, thank gosh. But the fact is, the fact that we could find lists like this and we could find these means it's not just one person had this, you know. No, there are other people that are crazy in a way that you're crazy, you know. At least they overlap some degree and stuff, and there is some comfort to that. I think so. But again, consent and your safety. Consent and safety keep those in mind, no matter what your turn on this.

Speaker 1: 28:13

So and a house cannot consent to being married, neither can the Statue of Liberty, nor can a fucking chandelier. There you go. No, we're gonna go. I feel it if you're seeing and you're getting sexually aroused or banging a ghost. Other people aren't there to listen for consent.

Speaker 3: 28:33

Yeah, but hey, if it's all in your imagination, the ghost can consent in your imagination, imagination my imagination, I'm the king of my wife and she.

Speaker 1: 28:43

There's like six thousand of her and only one of me.

Speaker 3: 28:47

Yeah, I don't think in your imagination she's the queen of king of you, actually. But that's just me. Yeah, but whatever way it works for you, that's it, just know. Figure it out, be true to yourself if you have a fetish about falling down the stairs or anything that's yeah or tickling horrible.

Speaker 1: 29:08

Uh, just please talk to somebody. Please be safe and don't let it go out of hand, like there's also one, for you know the idea of being amputated. Don't go cutting off body parts, appendages. Don't go playing with firecrackers in the hopes that you lose a finger and become an amputee.

Speaker 3: 29:25

Don't do no, but there are. There are websites even where you can go like, because people who are into amputees they often are fixated on a certain like some people want somebody with missing a left arm, or a right arm or a left foot and whatever, and there, yeah, they're matches for that. So, again, the good news is, whatever you've got, somebody probably wants it, so you just kind of find them All right. Well, thank you, thank you. Thank you for letting us go down this path of weird and crazy sexy stuff, and it's always interesting. There's always something we've never heard of, and that's kind of cool and fun. So, and All right, well, I think that's a wrap for this episode of come with us podcast, where you get the bear naked truth about love, sex and Relationships in all forms. So, of course, you can get even more sexy, fun, tips, tricks.

Speaker 3: 30:14

Follow us on social media Instagram, facebook. Can't wait to see you online. Erin and I are so glad to be with you on this very sexy journey. Again. Maybe, if you like sick people, you're really gonna be lusting after us today. My, my deep throat a boys sinus issues yes, Don't suck my nose tonight, all right.

Speaker 3: 30:41

Big hugs and love. We'll see you next week. Oh, I made up Aaron blush. That's perfect. It's a good day.

Speaker 2: 30:52

Thanks for listening to the come with us podcast. Be sure to follow us on social media at come with us podcast and send in your questions, comments and confessions to come with us. Confessions at gmailcom. Until next time, keep it fun, flirty and naughty.